The vast majority of people in online dating are sincere. But wherever many people come together, some don't mean well. A sharp eye for typical warning signs protects you – without going through dating life suspicious of everyone.
Common red flags
- Too much, too fast. Over-the-top declarations of love after a few messages („love bombing“) are a warning sign.
- Pushing to switch platforms. Wanting to move to other channels immediately bypasses safety mechanisms.
- Money topics. Any request for money, vouchers or „help in an emergency“ is a clear stop signal – no exceptions.
- Avoiding video calls. Someone who permanently avoids a meeting or a short video call might not be who they claim to be.
How to protect yourself concretely
- Share personal data (address, workplace, finances) only once real trust has grown.
- Meet for the first time in a public place and let a trusted person know.
- Listen to your gut. If something feels wrong, you don't have to justify it – you can step away any time.
Reporting helps everyone
You can report suspicious profiles or abuse directly on swaipr – in the app or via our reporting form. Child-safety reports are reviewed within 24 hours. More on our child-safety page.
Safe dating doesn't mean being suspicious – it means being attentive. Knowing the warning signs lets you enjoy the many sincere encounters all the more.